Psychological theory suggests that choosing “the one we love” is more difficult because we are the ones pursuing love, which may or may not be worth the effort. On the other hand, if we choose the one who loves us, others will pursue us, and we won’t have to try as hard. But in reality, our hearts often desire the one who loves us less. She believes she has the right to choose, so she keeps both men in her life as options until she’s sure who she wants to spend her life with. Ultimately, the truth of life may tell her that we should choose the one who truly “loves us.” (Source: Viu)
